Human beings are a kaleidoscope of emotions. Our actions and words are propelled by the feelings we experience. When people fall in love, they are simply reacting to a feeling kindled by the sight of an external object or subject. For human beings, nothing happens by chance, there is always cause and effect, action and reaction. While expressing love and happiness comes naturally to some, many find it challenging to admit to or accept the emotion of jealousy they sense or have for those close to them – be it a friend, sibling, or family member. The fear of admitting jealousy stems from the belief that it is unhealthy to feel envious of someone seemingly doing better than oneself. We often hesitate to acknowledge this emotion, assuming it reflects poorly on our character. We believe “true friends” aren’t even supposed to feel jealous at all, that they should always cheer up their friends (true) and support them along the way (true again). But I ask, why is it normal to feel and also e...
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